Integrate flashcoms community chat and cometchat - repost

We have our date site and want to integrate the community chat of [login to view URL] and [login to view URL] messenger. The streaming software is working, job is only integrate it in site chat button - links to cometchat messenger for 1 to 1 chat. When you login you see users that are online in the online list of comet chat. chatbox buttons - links to community chat flashcoms. When you login on site, you can click on chatbox and will be logged in on community chat as uses with profile.