Site Map for Large Web site

two websites, Colombia yellow pages [dot] org is a yellow page directory with 56,000 listings and each listing has 10 additional inbound links. I want you to create a site map for this domain name and include all the inbound links for each listing, around 600,000 urls to be included in the site map. Please provide your particulars for creating a site map. Consumer counseling [dot] org has about 39,000 urls and every time I try to do a site map I never include all the urls for some reason. I want you to create a site map for this domain name and include all the inbound links for each listing, around 40,000 urls to be included in the site map. Please provide your particulars for creating a site map